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"Leg's Shut, Eyes Wide Open". Sexuality and Vulnerability: A Woman's essential guide to reclaiming her Power. (Sept 2020)
In this 4-part series we uncover the lies you’ve been told about your sexuality and I reveal to you the real truth about how and when sexual healing happens and how you can build your tolerance for increased intimacy, pleasure and healthy relationships in your life.
We will journey together for 4 weeks, across 4 key cornerstones of psychosexual programming, equipping you to better understand your body, your sexual behaviour and how you can take the quality of your sexual and intimate experiences to the next level, plus from your partners loving hands back into your own.
Conditioning – Her Pleasure –His Pleasure -Neuroplasticity
Workshop timetable: 2 hrs on Monday evenings starting September
Note: this programme will also require a short, optional daily movement and/or journal practise and a once a week buddy check-in for maximum impact.
Proposed Schedule (subject to change prior to intial bookings)
Sept 7th:
- Sensual, Seductive and Silenced: Female sexual conditioning in the modern age and how we keep ourselves safe.
Sept 14th
- From Fear to Power: Embracing the sexual healing journey and the significant impact of behavioural baby steps.
Sept 21st
- She Comes First: A Guide to Women’s anatomy and arousal and to the liberation of female sexual energy.
Sept 28th
- Loving Him Hard: An essential guide to opening a man’s heart and his deeper lover potential.
This programme is for you if:
- You identify as female or female-bodied.
- You are looking for change and improvement in your life in relation to sexuality, intimacy and the quality of your physical relationships.
- You are open to new ideas and to the concept that you are a changeable and complex being, made up of multiple parts.
- You are open to the possibility that these parts each came online and took shape during your developmental and adult experiences and that they now organise themselves around your sexual expression to keep you safe.
- You are willing to get to know these parts of yourself and support them to relax or expand so that you might have new experiences of your sexuality.
- You are ready to leave self-criticism and shame behind and embrace a loving connection to yourself and to those who want to love you and give you pleasure.
- You are willing to bring yourself powerfully and vulnerably into a group healing environment to create change in the way you relate to your sexuality.
- You understand that by reclaiming your power during your most vulnerable, intimate expression, you set deep physiological imprints for your body that let it know that you’re in charge and that it can carry forward this confidence into the way it expresses itself in all other aspects of your life.
- You believe that the empowerment of women has a critical role in the transformation needed in our current collective consciousness and are willing to be a part of this evolutionary upgrade.
Note: you do not need to have been raised as female or identify as heterosexual to take part in this programme, however it is designed to be most helpful for persons who have been raised female and intend, or have, some experience of partnering sexually with men.
No prior personal development experience or therapeutic experience is needed. Just an open mind and a willing heart. You will be welcomed and held safe as the sacred being that you are.
Platform
- Zoom
Benefits of Attending
- Shortcut years of trial and error on the sexual healing path and learn how to navigate your body towards its individual needs for healing.
- Leverage the power of groups to expedite your journey, release shame and normalise experiences of trauma you may have experienced from simply being a woman.
- Learn more about your own body and its needs.
- Become a better, more present and more relaxed lover.
- Learn to consistently have sex work for you and work towards your healing whilst putting a stop to physical or emotional re-traumatisation.
- Give your relationships a better chance of success and pleasure by bringing more of yourself and avoiding over-extension, distancing, resentments and power imbalances.
- Take space for yourself to put yourself first, putting down the cultural burden that women carry of depleting themselves in service.
- Leverage your privilege, time, energy and power, to upgrade your consciousness .
Pricing, Payment and Application
- One-off payment of £125 for the full series. Payments received before close of day August 31st are eligible for an additional £25 early payment discount; Early Bird Price £100
- To apply please email me This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to confirm your desire to join the programme and submit your payment to Miss E Harper, Triodos Bank, Sort Code: 16-58-10, Account No: 20849605, pay the £125 fee via Paypal here for overseas participants or to avoid my payment of Paypal fees please transfer via friends and family to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
It can be beneficial to accompany your journey with 1 to 1 Internal Family Systems sessions. Please enquire for further information if you have an openness to personal therapy
Ideal group size is 24 and places will be limited above 30 participants
For more information on Internal Family Systems from Founder Richard C Schwartz visit: https://ifs-institute.com/
For more information on Psychosexual Somatics Therapy visit: https://www.psychosexualsomatics.com/
"Unravelling Peak Performance". Sexuality and Vulnerability: A man’s essential guide to the mystery of sexuality, and to reclaiming his open heart. (August 2020)
In this 4-part series we uncover the lies you’ve been told about your sexuality and I reveal to you how shifting your sexual mindset can revolutionise your relationships and invite you and your partner into increased intimacy, pleasure and enjoyment in your lives.
We will journey together for 4 weeks, across 4 key cornerstones of psychosexual programming, equipping you to better understand your body, your sexual behaviour and how you can take the quality of your sexual and intimate experiences to the next level, reducing the pressure you place on yourself and inviting sexual partners into greater agency and sexual empowerment.
Conditioning - Her Pleasure - His Pleasure - Neuroplasticity
Workshop timetable: 2 hrs on Monday evenings across August. From 7pm
Note: this programme will also require a short, optional, personal daily practise and once a week buddy check-in for maximum impact.
August 3rd:
- Vulnerability Matters: Male sexual conditioning in the modern age and how we protect our hearts.
August 10th
- Sensual, Seductive and Silenced: Female sexual conditioning in the modern age and how your loving touch can support her unfolding.
August 17th
- Coming Together: The magic of presence, communication and mutual responsibility for deepening your intimacy.
August 24th
- Deconstructing Venus: A Guide to Women’s anatomy and arousal and what you really need to know to make an exceptional lover.
This programme is for you if:
- You identify as male or male-bodied.
- You are looking for change and improvement in your life in relation to sexuality, intimacy and the quality of your physical relationships.
- You are willing to bring yourself into a group healing environment to create change in the way you relate to your sexuality.
- You are open to the idea that by reclaiming your vulnerability during the most intimate, shared expression of yourself, that you set deep physiological imprints for your body, that allow it to begin to soften , whilst opening space for real connection in your relationships inside and outside the bedroom.
- You are open to the concept that you are a changeable and complex being, made up of multiple parts.
- You are open to the possibility that parts of you came online and took shape during your developmental and adult experiences and that they now organise themselves around your sexual expression in a way that attempts to keep you feeling safe and powerful.
- You are willing to get to know these parts of yourself and support them to relax or expand in order that you might have new experiences of your sexuality.
- You are ready to leave self-criticism and shame behind and embrace a loving connection to yourself and to those who want to love you and give you pleasure.
- You believe that the increasing sexual consciousness of men and women has a critical role in the world and are willing to be a part of a group of people bravely stepping into personal development in an area most shy away from looking at.
- You are willing to acknowledge me in my role as your guide in this territory as being both human and imperfect and to retain ownership for developing your own thoughts, feelings and truth in regards your personal sexuality, how you chose to express yourself and the decisions you make in your relationships.
Note: you do not need to have been raised as male or identify as heterosexual to take part in this programme, however it is designed to be most helpful for persons who have been raised male and intend, or have, some experience of partnering sexually with women.
No prior personal development experience or therapeutic experience is needed. Just an open mind and a willing heart. You will be welcomed and held safe as the sacred being that you are.
Platform
- Zoom
Benefits of Attending
- Avoid costly mistakes, heart-ache, rejection and humiliation by educating yourself about your sexuality and taking yourself as a lover seriously, for yourself and for the sake of your partners.
- Become a better, more present and more relaxed lover.
- Increase sexual confidence and communication skills
- Leverage the power of groups to expedite your journey, release shame and normalise difficult sexual experiences you may have had from simply being male and not having received adequate education about the female body and the sexual act itself.
- Re-imprint inaccurate messages you may have learned about female sexuality from the pornography industry.
- Shortcut years of potential trial and error on the relational healing path by being open to the experience of a sexuality professional and of a supportive and neutral female guide.
- Learn more about your own body and its needs.
- Learn how to touch your partner, physically and emotionally.
- Learn to consistently have sex work for you and reduce performance-related stress
- Give your relationships a better chance of success and pleasure by bringing more of yourself and avoiding over-responsibility, feelings of rejection, resentments and power imbalances.
- Take space for yourself to receive from the group, putting down the cultural burden that men carry of needing to effort, perform or work hard to be of value.
- Embrace your privilege and learn to wield your power in the world with consciousness and heart, being a force for positive change.
Pricing, Payment & Application
- One-off payment of £125 for the full series. Payments received before close of day July 27th are eligible for an additional £25 early payment discount; Early Bird Price £100
- To apply please email me This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. to confirm your desire to join the programme and submit your payment to Miss E Harper, Triodos Bank, Sort Code: 16-58-10, Account No: 20849605, pay the £125 fee via Paypal here for overseas participants or to avoid my payment of Paypal fees please transfer via friends and family to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.
It can be beneficial to accompany your journey with 1 to 1 Internal Family Systems sessions. Please enquire for further information if you have an openness to personal therapy/process.
Ideal group size is 8-12 and places will be limited above 24 participants
For more information on Internal Family Systems from Founder Richard C Schwartz visit: https://ifs-institute.com/
For more information on Psychosexual Somatics Therapy visit: https://www.psychosexualsomatics.com/
Lucy Rowett and the Shameless Woman series present: Emma K Harper Guest Speaker on the topic of "Sexual Communication" (Date TBD)
A 12 week programme dedicated to supporting women to overcome sexual shame, the Shameless Woman Series runs July to October 2020, online and is now available for applications.
To find Lucy and enquire about the programme click here
Shalisfest 2020 Presents: Emma K Harper: Normalising Trauma in the Female Sexual Experience ( July 25th 2020)
I am taking part in an exciting Online event hosted by ShalisInstitute - SHALISFEST 2020 that's taking place in a private Instagram account, Saturday 25th of July, meaning you can enjoy a day full of LIVE lectures, thought-provoking discussions, and exciting practices, including dancing and sound meditation from anywhere in the world.
Sexuality is first and foremost about your relationship with yourself. Much of our sexuality is learned, absorbed throughout our lifetime - we learn from our culture how to have sex, what’s acceptable, what’s taboo and what it means to be a woman. This year, ShalisInstitute has gathered the best sexuality masters, to raise the most important questions and explore the ways we can unlearn bad habits and re-write your sexual narrative. Best part? All the talks and practices will be recorded, and you will have access to all content for 1 month after the event!
I have a special promo code for you with a 30% discount to register – Emma30. Click here to book your tickets, save the date in your calendar and enjoy the day at ShalisFest 2020! I can't wait to see you there!
*Please note you will need to have an Instagram account to access this event.
The Pursuit of Pleasure Festival online presents: "Rediscovering Sexual Pleasure in the Female Body – Emma K Harper" ( @ 11.45am-1.45pm, July 11th 2020)
Join me and ~ 20 other sexuality and pleasure professionals, including Wheel of Consent Founder Betty Martin, online from the 10-12th July 2020 to receive >40 hours of educational workshops focussed solely on pleasure.
Hosted by Sacred Light Tantra, I will be teaching on the subject of the female body in Western Culture: How Cultural Conditions separate women from their bodies and how to work together to navigate her body back into a space where sexual connection and pleasure is truly possible.
Benefits of attending my workshop alone include:
- Understand the cultural environment that impacts women’s sexuality and how it becomes distorted.
- Understand common, conditioned female sexual behaviours that might serve to reduce connection and pleasure, and what to do about them in your sexual encounters
- Broaden your understanding of how to support yourself or your partner back into the body for improved sex
- Learn to track and support the nervous system towards arousal
- Understand the female pathways to arousal and how to support her body to open at her own pace.
- Learn how to become a more supportive partner and better lover.
And all this from just £45 for the whole weekend, plus paypal fees, depending on your financial circumstances. Regular weekend tickets just £65.
To find the event on facebook click here, for tickets click here, and for the line up and festival programme click here
PST Coaching Programme (Sept 2020 to Mar 2021)
Launching online in Sept 2020, the PST Coaching Programme is a world-class professional coaching qualification for those looking to work with sexuality, intimacy and embodiment.
Last year I joined Mike Lousada and Louise Mazanti on their Leadership and Mentoring team, providing theraueptic and mentoring support to the cohort of developing PST Coaching Programme students. This year I will take a step back and stay in a therapeutic role supporting new students on their personal development journey. I highly recommend this professional training for those interested in working with clients around issues of sexuality and embodiment. Trauma-informed and heart-centered work in it's fullest expression.
For further details of the programme or to apply for the 2020 programme click here PST Coaching Programme
Sonder and Beam presents: Em-power up your Sex Life (April-July 2020)
Since 2019 I have been working in Collaboration with Sonder and Beam (formerly Scarlet Ladies) to provide education and sexual empowerment for Women. I will form part of the 2020 teaching programme with 3 in-person teaching appearences for members this year. Last years virtual teachings around sexual communication and healthy relationships remain available online through the organisation.
Sonder and Beam is a London-Based and now globally reaching Social Enterprise focussed on Educating and Empowering women around their sexuality. Proceeds from membership subscriptions fund Women's Rights and Educational Projects Worldwide
For more information or to join, click here: Sonder and Beam
Killing Kittens presents: Sex with Strangers (June 2019)
This workshop ran in june 2019. Due to a location move it is unclear if i will run this again for 2020. Watch this space.
13th June 2019: Killing Kittens Workshop "Sex with Strangers" Navigating Sex and Dating
